It is your birthright
to attain success in life. Few get it easily while others require traveling a
harsh path. The level of simplicity or harshness will vary for every individual
as per time, situation, and circumstances.
The million Dollar
question is, “What to do after becoming successful?“. For a wise man it will not be that
difficult to attain desired position, but maintaining it. It’s said that
success is not some destination, but a journey.
Become More Humble:
Why? We all are well
aware about the rise & fall of mighty Ravana. He had all qualities that can
be expected in a man, except he was too proud about his capabilities. Nothing
but this false pride was the root cause that led to his end and fall of one
mighty empire.
Chanakya Niti says that:
“problems in life are
nothing, but the fruits from tree of ones own misdeeds”
With success comes great responsibility and one must utilize his
energy and resources for productive tasks. It’s time for you to enjoy your success
than to engage yourself in act of revenge or jealousy.
Take Measures to Safeguard Your Interests:
There are few things that are
to be done. This idea might appear conflicting with the idea stated right
above, but is not. The concept here is about not oppressing the weak,
but the wicked.
“The
only two ways for dealing with thorns is to stay away from them or to
crush them under your boot”
The care to be taken is
that while doing so you don’t deviate from ethics and norms of
humanity.
Identity the Side Changers:
There always existed and still
exists a class of men who are not loyal to anyone, except themselves. Never
allow such men to engage or interfere in your critical tasks. They will not
hesitate to sell you for a better bargain.
I understand that in most of
the situations you might require their help and support. Just use them as
some tool with no affinity for them in your heart.
Control Your Greed:
Greed is the root cause for all
problem. As a successful man you must learn to control your greed. My
brother there is a very fine line between being greedy and being ambitious. In
other words “Greed is the ugly
negative form of ambition“.
It’s good that you are
ambitious, but being a greedy wolf is …
Provide Help to People Who Helped:
One of the best things
will be attain the attitude of gratitude. You must help the people who helped. This will strengthen your
relationship which in term is a great asset. This way you also get a sort of
guarantee that those people will help again in future.
In case, you don’t
require their help in future, then too you must help them as that will
ultimately add to your glory & fame.
The act of gratitude is what differentiates a beast from human.
Keep Yourself Motivated:
It is very important
to keep yourself motivated and to be on correct path. You must plan in a manner
that you never run out of virtuous objectives. A lot of men complain about
sudden loss in energy and focus once they fulfill their long awaited goal.
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