Being in-control / being in-charge.

Many believe that things around us operate on auto-pilot and we don’t have any significant control on our life and lives around. Well! if you are satisfied by the things around you then there is no point in reading any further anyhow, if you expect a change then the following words might help. I repeat “Might Help … no guarantees …” Why? there is no defined rule for living life and for achieving success.

One way to live life is trying, testing and rectifying the errors and other is to let is go like waiting for fate to show its charm/harm.

The interesting part of being human is that your situations and scenarios will be completely/partially different form any other individual on the planet. It becomes even more interesting on comparing goals and objectives as those will be similar, until you have a totally weird objective in life.

I guess you want happiness, more happiness in life, wealth, even  more wealth, respect, fame, glory, good partner and few other things that you know quite well. Everyone has a dream and that dream if accomplished by someone else, becomes a nightmare for oneself. For eg: your competitor achieves goal while you were still planning.

One must understand that in this world actions by you, he, she and they will together have some significant or insignificant impact on your life and vice-versa. Everything is interlinked and its up to you for determining the way of life.  Make yourself a valuable asset for others and once you accomplish that life will be totally transformed.

Its your life and one day it will end for sure. The period between birth and death will determine the value of your very existence. Be it money, social position or anything you desire; better attain it before leaving this world. The lines above might sound ugly, but are quite true.

So make a list of your objectives, make it very clear, plan well and don’t forget to act upon them.  Stop complaining and take control of your life.  What happened was your past; don’t sabotage your future justifying the actions performed in past.